Build your castle hold your ground, it's okay to be alone than struggling to fall asleep next to a I-used -to-know-you stranger. Every lonesome minute deserves to be cherished, you still have promises to keep, miles to go before you sleep!!! Don't drink that instant noodles soup anymore don't fall in the dick-sand!!! If you failed once or twice it's totally OKAY but remember how shitty you feel each time after it!!! Let your stupid past wrong moves be the sound of your feet up on the ground!!! You can do anything you aim for, if you doubt it it's just because you don't want it enough yet!!! If you like it keep doing it and if you don't call it off you know you can!!! And if you are not sure just let it riiiiiiiiiiiiide!!!
All in all,
WHO GIVES THE FUCK ABOUT BEING SINGLE IF YOU'RE IN NEW YORK!!!
YOU ARE IN FUCKING NEW YORK!!!
FIND THE NEW YORK IN YOU!!!

电影的主题思想很明确：趟过男人河的女人终于才能明白——其实自己不需要男人。
女主角爱丽丝大学期间就认识了男友 Josh，她从住在父母家到大学与室友住在一起最后毕业了和男友同居在一起，从来没有尝试过一个人生活的滋味，让她萌生了“想要发现自我，暂时和男友分开”的离奇想法，不管男友万分挽留最终离去，后来认识了好友乔丹并且被带领着一头栽进了“男人河”里；最终在酒吧酒保的一夜情中，她才明白到，这个社会中的男人大多是想要占女人便宜却不想要任何牵连或责任的男人，让她明白到男友对她真挚情感的可贵，可当她想要回到男友身边时， Josh却说他已经有了新的女朋友了，后来他很快与女友订婚，这一切都似乎像是要报复爱丽丝，而爱丽丝一直为此后悔痛苦，在此后后的几次恋爱也以失败告终，让她明白到真爱难寻；她痛苦着，寂寞着，自责着，寻觅着，却忘记去找寻“真我”。
反观爱丽丝的姐姐，是个医生，她热爱自己的工作，不但有钱养活自己还打算生个孩子自己养，因为她知道自己不需要男人

开头听到了霉霉的welcome to newyork.i love it.
半夜看到流泪，触动。
it's fine to be single.not because it's reasonable. just because you can be a better you. you can have more time focus on yourself，foucus on your best friend.and you'll find you can be independent.so,enjoy your single life and be a better you.
也许很鸡汤，但此刻确实触动。
ps:孩子笑起来真的很暖～

The thing about being single is, you should cherish it. Because in a week, or a lifetime being alone, you may only get one moment. One moment when you are not tied up in a relationship with anyone. A parent, a pet, a sibling, a friend. One moment when you stand on your own.really truly single. And then, it’s gone.
当你在一段感情中，就全情投入进去。当你单身，就一个人活得精彩

《单身指南》How to be single
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